Most of us do not realize that, to be successful in things we do or want to achieve, it’s not just our abilities or expectations.
Its about letting go – fixed and the “sure-cannot” mindsets, excuses, procastination, ego/wanting others to say good things about us, etc.
Open up to challenges, critiques and ask for frank feedbacks but be prepared to accept, re-learn and be decisive, take actions…
“Some things are up to us, and some things are not up to us.” — Epictetus
Differentiating these two is crucial.
Detach from the things you cannot control, focus on the ones you can, and know that sometimes, the only thing you will be able to control is your attitude towards something.